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A Better Conversation About Women's Pleasure
Published on Feb 27, 2026
Updated on Feb 27, 2026
Have you ever wondered what makes you experience toe-curling orgasms? The ones that send waves of heat throughout your body? Or have you ever wondered what really gets the special woman in your life off so much that she instantly brags about you in her group chat with her friends? Then you’re in the right place.
Women’s pleasure is getting the attention and curiosity it deserves, with more honest discussions happening every day. People are exploring topics like squirting, clitoral vs. G-spot stimulation, and what pleasure can really feel like.
This International Women’s Day, we’re shining the spotlight on women’s pleasure honestly, openly and without judgement.
Why Women Don’t OrgasmFemale Orgasm MythsToys for MasturbationToys for ForeplayToys for SexUser ReviewsFAQConclusion
Understanding the Female Orgasm: What Most People Still Get Wrong
It’s 2026, and believe it or not, tons of people are still turning to Google to ask the most common questions about women’s sexual health such as:
That’s not because women’s bodies are complicated. It’s because women’s pleasure has been treated like optional information for way too long.
For the majority of us, sexual education classes in high school either were not a thing or just touched on the basics of reproduction, which means that most adults today have unfortunately not been properly taught about sexual pleasure. Many have had to learn by experimenting on what felt right or by consuming erotic material like pornography, which we can finally admit is the furthest thing from reality.
We’re here to tell you the plain truth, which is, pleasure works differently for most women than it does for most men. And while that’s not a problem which needs fixing, it’s just information we all should have had way sooner—because understanding these differences makes everything easier.
Here’s a quick breakdown:
Aspect
Male Pleasure
Female Pleasure
Primary source of pleasure
Focused on the penis
Clitoris, G-spot, whole-body arousal
Time to orgasm
5-7 minutes on average
15-20 minutes on average
Arousal style
Often visual, direct
Often emotional, contextual, layered
Orgasm consistency
High during penetrative sex
Lowered without additional stimulation
What helps
Physical stimulation
Communication, trust, variety, time
Now we’re not here to say that one way of experiencing pleasure is better than another, we just want to point out that what works for one person might not automatically work for another, and if we’re aiming for actual mutual pleasure, then we should pay more attention to these differences.
The shame around not knowing your body or what you like? That ends here. Learning what feels good is part of being human.
Why So Many Women Still Don't Orgasm
Here’s a statistic that should come as no surprise to most but somehow always still does: in heterosexual encounters, 95% of men report having an orgasm during sex, compared to only 65% of women. For context, lesbian women report orgasming about 89% of the time. Gay men? 88%.
At this point, we definitely know that anatomy isn’t the issue here, but rather the approach.
Unfortunately, a lot of heterosexual women still feel embarrassed asking for what they want in the bedroom. Some fake orgasms just to avoid any awkwardness, or to protect their partner’s feelings while others simply just don’t know what they like yet.
And if we’re being honest, shame is still a factor. According to research from Pulse magazine, 57% of young women would rather Google their sexual health questions than talk to a doctor. Why? We think because there’s still stigma around admitting you don’t know something, or that sex isn’t working the way you thought it would.
But guessing or hiding do not have to be the norm.
The most common reasons orgasms don’t happen:
Individuals tend to follow a "penetration-first" script, instead of finding out what actually works for women (which science tells us is often clitoral stimulation)
Pressure often turns sex into a performance, which is guaranteed to kill arousal fast.
Women tend tofake orgasmsto keep the peace, which often means their partners never learn what actually works for them.
Hormonal changes(like pregnancy or menopause) change how sex feels, often lowering orgasm frequency.
Common Myths About Female Orgasms
First things first: orgasms are healthy. They reduce stress, can improve sleep and even boost your immune system.
But there are still many myths/old wives tales about how female orgasms should happen and we thought we’d clear a few up:
Myth #1: All women should orgasm from penetration alone.
Incorrect. In fact, most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. It is a well-known fact that the clitoris has more nerve endings than the penis (exact number? 8000). While vaginal orgasms are possible, especially with G-spot stimulation, they’re not the only or even the most common type.
Myth #2: Squirting is just pee.
Eh… Not quite. While squirting does involve some fluid from the bladder, it's also mixed with secretions from the Skene's glands. It's a real phenomenon, and if it happens, great. If it doesn't, also great. There's no "should" here. (Want to learn more? Check out our guide on squirting.)
Myth #3: If you don't orgasm, then your sex sesh was trash.
Pleasure and orgasm aren't one and the same. Sometimes the journey is as good as arriving at the destination. Oftentimes, stress, medication, or just being in your own head gets in the way and that’s ok.
The takeaway? There's no one "right" way to experience pleasure. Your body, your rules.
How to Enhance Self-Pleasure During Masturbation
We’ve all had to start from somewhere and if you don’t know what you like, how is anyone else supposed to figure it out for you?
That's where masturbation comes in as it's one of the best ways to understand what actually works for you—what type of touch, pressure or rhythm makes your body respond.
For women especially, masturbation is an ideal way to explore what you truly want, without the performance anxiety or guessing game.
Toys can help speed up that learning curve. At Lovense, we’ve designed products like the Lush 4, Nora and Spinel for you to fully explore what feels good for you.
Lush 4 is a discreet G-spot egg vibrator created for powerful yet whisper-quiet stimulation. Its ergonomic shape sits comfortably in place, making it perfect for fun at home or out in public.
Nora is a smart rabbit vibrator designed to deliver simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation, helping you discover the sensations that feel best for you.
Spinel is a mini sex machine that comes with multiple attachments. Personalize your play with vibration, thrusting and heating. Perfect for those who want an effortless way to experiment with different sensations.
Improving Foreplay with Communication & Exploration
Now, it’s time to talk about foreplay and not the "two minutes of kissing before jumping straight to penetration" kind. The actual kind that builds arousal, creates anticipation and gives your body time to warm up.
If we’re being honest, most women need more time.
Rushing takes most women out of the feelings that would make sensation feel so much better.
Here's what actually helps:
Touch that's not goal-oriented. Kissing, stroking, massaging, without the pressure of it leading somewhere immediately.
Verbal check-ins. A simple "Does this feel good?" or "Want me to keep going?" can make a huge difference.
Paying attention to response. If someone's breath changes, if their body leans in, if they make a sound, that's feedback.
Using lube when needed. Arousal doesn't always equal wetness, and that's normal. Lube just makes everything feel better.
And yeah, we know that talking during sex can feel awkward. But it doesn't have to sound like a TED Talk. Try:
"I love when you do that."
"Can we slow down for a sec?"
"What if we tried…?"
"That feels amazing."
Communication is the thing that makes good sex possible. When both people feel safe saying what they want (or don't want), pleasure stops being a guessing game
Bring Toys Into the Build-Up
The right toy can extend foreplay and keep anticipation high without rushing the moment. Wearable options like Ferri and Lush Mini add teasing vibrations your partner can control, while Flexer introduces dual stimulation designed to mimic natural touch. Used slowly, these toys can help you warm up together and make arousal feel less like a switch and more like a steady climb.
Ferri offers wearable clit vibrations, easily secured to your underwear via a magnetic cap. It’s perfect for discreet play at home or on-the-go.
Lush Mini packs powerful G-spot vibrations into a slim, comfortable design. Created with beginners mind.
Flexer is a dual-stimulation panty vibrator, offering both clit and G-spot stimulation at once. Designed to mimic real-life fingering sensations.
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And if you’ve been curious about trying something new, this is a great time — everything mentioned is currently discounted, making exploration a little easier. You can also save up to 55% when you buy two or more toys together.
Making Penetrative Sex Work for You
As we’ve stated earlier, most women don't orgasm from penetrative sex alone. And that's not something to fix, it’s just something to work with.
If you or your partner prefers penetrative sex, here are a few ways to make it more pleasurable:
Positions are key. Some sex positions are just designed to hit the G-spot better while others make it easier to stimulate the clitoris. Experiment with what works, whether that's missionary with a pillow under the hips, cowgirl for more control, or anything in between.
Let go of the "finish line" mentality. If you continue to obsses about orgasming then sex just turns into a performance. Focus on what feels good in the moment and stay present.
And for men reading this: penetrative sex doesn't have to be the main event. Oral sex (here's a guide to cunnilingus if you want to level up), fingering, toys, or just extended touch, all of these can be just as intimate and satisfying. Sometimes more so.
Support Penetration With Toys Toys
can complement penetration by adding stimulation without putting pressure on either partner. Lovense has multiple toys that can add to both parties’ pleasure, such as Gravity, Lapis, and Hush 2.
Gravity is a hands-free automatic thrusting dildo— a great way to save energy without sacrificing pleasure.
Lapis is a double-sided vibrating dildo that invites shared control and playful power shifts.
Hush 2 offers approachable anal stimulation that can pair with vaginal penetration for a fuller experience.
Best Toys for During Sex
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All three are currently part of the Women’s Day promotion, with up to 55% off — a solid excuse to experiment and find what works for you.
Hear From Real Users
Sure our expert advice can guide you, but real experiences often provide the reassurance people need before trying something new. See what others had to say about toy comfort, ease of use, and what the sensations actually feel like.
Ferri
Discreet and Fun
It's my favorite toy. The magnet helps it stay in place, no matter what you're doing, you can dance or do a cartwheel. The vibration feels so good, it makes me go crazy.
@HeavynHiraya
Nora
Intense Pleasure
This rabbit vibrator is an absolute dream! The G-spot and clit stimulation are a powerful combination that make me orgasm in no time!
Jully Luv
Lush Mini
Comfortable Wearable Design
No, you really don’t need underwear. Took this toy to the park. Hubby had the remote. Three hours of teasing and not a single complaint (from me, at least)
@Vanandjuani
Lush 4
Exciting Public Play
I can comfortably wear Lush 4 in public without anyone noticing. It feels so naughty... I love it!
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FAQ: Common Questions About Women's Pleasure
1. Do most women orgasm from penetration alone?
Unfortunately no. Around 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Penetration alone usually isn't enough, which is normal.
2. Is it okay to use toys during partnered sex?
Absolutely, adding sex toys is a great way to add stimulation and pleasure for both partners during sex. It shows you genuinely care about your partner’s pleasure.
3. What if I've never had an orgasm?
Know that you're not alone, and there's no rush. Start by exploring on your own, without pressure. Try different types of touch, different toys, different positions. (This guide might help.)
4. How do I tell my partner what I want without hurting their feelings?
Frame it as something you're discovering together, not something they're doing wrong. For example, "I'd love to try…" works better than "You never…"
5. Is it normal for arousal to take a while?
Yes. Stress, hormones, medication, even just being distracted can all slow things down. Give yourself (and your body) some grace.
Wrapping It Up
Women's pleasure isn't complicated, we’re just not taught enough about it. For too long, the conversation defaulted to what worked for men, and women were left to figure things out on their own.
But that's changing. Slowly, sure, but it's changing.
Whether you're learning your own body, trying to show up better for a partner, or just curious about how all of this actually works, the most important thing you can do is keep the conversation going. Ask questions. Try new things. Speak up when something feels good (or doesn't).
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